Journaling for Personal Growth
Use journal pages to steer your future.
Journaling is a powerful tool that few people take full advantage of. Many dismiss the process as a silly waste of time. However, journaling provides a multitude of benefits. A surprising number of highly successful people make journaling a daily habit.
Who are you? Do you really know? Have you ever thought about what you value, what you crave, what you love? Journaling helps you learn about yourself and gain insight into your life. It helps us set priorities, record accomplishments, and explore our intentions. There’s something magical about writing and journaling that thinking alone just doesn’t have.
There’s no need to worry about your writing skills. Your journal is for you. It is the process of communicating and recording that is most important. While you can type your journal into your computer, most people find it more effective to use actual paper and write. Ask yourself questions, and be a curious friend to yourself. Consider your pen or pencil as a magic wand that connects you to your inner being.
Use these tips to gain insight into your mind and your life:
1. Review your day. Take a look at your day and make some notes.
What happened?
How can you use this in the future?
What did you learn?
What mistakes did you make?
How can tomorrow be better than today?
2. List progress toward your goals. Think about your goals and list the progress you make toward each. If you failed to make progress toward one or more of your goals, note that, too.
Be proud of the progress you’ve made.
Become more determined by the progress you failed to make.
3. Address your fears. Write about your fears. What’s the worst that could happen? What are you afraid of? Why do you think you’re afraid of those things? How do your fears impact your life? What is your plan to address those fears?
4. Choose one way to enhance yourself. Pick something you want to work on and work on it. Write about it in your journal. Perhaps you want to learn something new, get out more often, drink more water, lose 10 pounds or strengthen your communication skills.
Choose something that would enhance your life and write about your thoughts, plans, and progress. What are the benefits of this enhancement? How will it help you enjoy life more?
5. List your goals each day. Writing down your goals each day is a powerful way to stay focused on them. Don’t tackle too much; consider baby steps towards your goals. Write your five most important goals each day and notice how they evolve over time. What did you accomplish, and what did you reconsider?
6. Start making gratitude lists. Gratitude is a powerful influence on our outlook on life. Gratitude also helps us accept the present while we face the future. We too often focus on what we are not, or what we have not to enjoy the life we have in the now.
List five things that make you feel grateful. What are you grateful for? Who are you grateful for? Make a list of several items each day and notice how your perspective on life changes.
7. Write about the obstacles. What’s standing in your way? What has you feeling intimidated? What is the source of your frustration or lack of growth and progress? List the obstacles in your life that you believe are blocking you from happiness or achieving your goals. Consider asking others, or speaking out to the Universe, for help.
8. Make a plan for the future. Aside from your specific goals, what does your dream life look like? Where do you want to be next year, in five years, in ten years? How are you planning on getting there? What, exactly, do you need to do or learn? Think about it and sketch out a plan. Break large tasks and projects down into smaller, manageable pieces.
9. Write about your negative emotions. Our emotions need to be processed or they are stored in our bodies and our minds. We store tension in our muscles, grind our teeth, and lose sleep. Simply writing down the fact that you are angry, hurt, frustrated, jealous, grieving, or confused — can help you better manage stress and anxiety and open you up to solutions, forgiveness of self and others, and release these toxic emotions from your body.
What is getting you down? What are the situations, people, habits, and beliefs that are causing you the most grief? Why do these things bother you? What can you do about it? How do you manage your negative emotions?
10. List the best thing and worst thing that happened today. Not all days are good, and not all days are bad. Most days have a little bit of both. What are the good and bad of the day? What was so great or terrible about them?
Did you let one bad thing ruin the entire day? Did you let something good lift your spirits for the day? How do you manage the ups and downs of daily life? How do you react to the bad? How do you react to the good?
11. Use journaling prompts. There are literally thousands of journaling prompts online you can choose to use at any time. Journaling prompts are designed to promote internal reflection, personal growth, and self-exploration. Here are a few examples to get you started:
Make a travel bucket list.
List five things you appreciate about each member of your family.
Describe your ideal day.
If I could speak to my teenage self, I would say…
I wish that others knew I…
I wish I could say no to...
Journaling each day can take some time, but this daily “self-check” is a moment of self-love and time well spent. Invest in yourself by taking time to journal. Develop a routine that incorporates journaling into your life. It won’t be long before you begin noticing the benefits. Do what the most successful people in the world do and explore your thoughts and your life.